I balance courage for getting what I want with consideration for what others want. When conflicts arise, I do not look to place blame upon others, as it will create a loser in this situation. I take the responsibility to look for a solution that will benefit all that is involved.
1) Gather old toys that your child may no longer want. Have them donate to local charities. Discuss how this is a win-win for them and another child.
2) Community Service: Have your family participate in a community service event (Habitat for Humanity, soup kitchen service, clothes closet, etc) Discuss afterwards how it was a win-win for the family and for the others.